Dose of Halacha

Question: I recited a beracha of hatov vehametiv when we bought our home a few years ago and we are now extending it. Should we say another beracha ? Answer: The Mishna (Berachos 54a) teaches that one recites the beracha of shehecheyanu upon building a new house. The Gemara (Berachos 59b) teaches that when one owns it with a partner, one recites hatov vehametiv instead . The Chayei Adam (1:62:2) argues that a married man would recite shehecheyanu as he is obligated to provide his wife and family with a home. Nonetheless, the Mishna Berura (Biur Halacha 232:3) disagrees as they have the option to rent a house rather than buy one. Thus, one would recite hatov vehametiv on a family home. Many Sephardim follow the Ben Ish Chai (Re’eh 1:7) and Kaf Hachaim (OC 232:17) who write that common practice is not to say a beracha just on a new house. Rather one should wear a new garment or eat a special fruit, and have the house in mind when saying shehecheyanu (see Ohr Letzion 2:14:47...

Question: I just became a grandparent for the first time. Can I say shehecheyanu ? Answer: The Gemara (Berachos 59b) teaches that one recites the beracha of hatov vehametiv upon hearing that their wife has given birth to a boy (see Shulchan Aruch OC 223:1). The Elya Rabba (223:1) quotes the Sefer Chassidim (843) who relates that one particular elder recited this beracha upon hearing that that he had a grandson. However, the Rashba (4:77) writes that one cannot just recite the beracha of hatov vehametiv on anything that brings them happiness. The Mishna Berura (Biur Halacha 64:1) adds that the other poskim do not concur with the Sefer Chasidim . Thus, he advises that one refrain from reciting the beracha . R' Chaim Naeh (Ketzos Hashulchan 64:11) challenges the Mishna Berura, arguing that the Elya Rabba must have known about the Rashba’s Teshuva, yet still chose to follow the Sefer Chasidim (see Piskei Teshuvos 223:n15). Nonetheless, the Kaf Hachaim (OC 223:3) quo...