Sunday 14 May 2023

Tachanun on Bar Mitzva Day

Question: I was davening in a chassidishe shul and they omitted tachanun due to a Bar Mitzva. Was that right?

Answer: The Shulchan Aruch (OC 131:4) writes that one omits tachanun in a shul when there is a chassan present or on the day of a bris.

R' Ovadia Yosef (Yabia Omer OC 1:27; 4:14; Yechave Daas 2:15) writes that one omits tachanun on a day when a boy becomes Bar Mitzva, too, comparing this both to a chassan and a bris. He quotes R’ Ben Zion Meir Chai Uziel who writes that this minhag highlights the importance of becoming Bar Mitzva, and of the significance of wearing tefillin.

However, R’ Eliezer Waldenberg (Tzitz Eliezer 11:17) disagrees, writing that omitting tachanun is not going to encourage anyone to wear tefillin. R’ Nosson Gestetner (Lehoros Nosson 10:16) explains that the reason why the Shulchan Aruch does not mention Bar Mitzva is because it is not the same simcha as a bris or chuppa.

R’ Yitzchok Yaakov Weiss (Minchas Yitzchak 8:11) notes that the Minchas Elazar would omit tachanun when there was a Bar Mitzva in shul. Nonetheless, he disagrees, writing that this is not common practice. R’ Binyamin Zilber (Az Nidberu 11:48) notes that the Ashkenazi practice in Eretz Yisrael is to say tachanun (see Rivevos Ephraim 1:337; 3:86; 4:44:57; Ishei Yisrael 25:n79).

In conclusion, some Sefardim and Chassidim omit tachanun in shul on the day of a Bar Mitzva while the main Ashkenazi practice is to say it.

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