Dose of Halacha

Question: Do I need to sit down for melave malka even when Shabbos goes out after 11pm? Answer: The Gemara (Shabbos 119b) writes that one should set one’s table for a meal after Shabbos. This meal is known as melave malka , escorting out the Shabbos queen. Rambam (Shabbos 30:5) and the Tur (OC 300:1) explain that we should escort Shabbos out with the same respect that we brought it in with. Thus, the Mishna Berura (300:1; 3) writes that one should lay the table properly as one does for Shabbos, light candles and sing zemiros. While the Mishna Berura (300:1) writes that melave malka is not as important as the three Shabbos meals, the poskim stress the importance of this meal and the reward of those who are particular to partake. R’ Yehoshua Neuwirth (Shemiras Shabbos Kehilchasa 63:3) quotes many poskim who write that women are equally obligated to eat melave malka (See Maaseh Rav 150). The Vilna Gaon (Biur Hagra OC 300:1) says that one should eat bread at the meal. The Ma...

Question: If we are not allowed to throw food then how can we throw sweets at a chassan at his aufruf ? Answer: The Gemara (Berachos 50b) teaches that as bread is more important than other food, one should never throw bread. Likewise, one must not throw unwrapped food that could get ruined. Thus, Rambam (Berachos 7:9) and the Shulchan Aruch (OC 171:1) write that one must treat food in a respectful manner. R’ Yehoshua Neuwirth (Shemiras Shabbos Kehilchasa 20:29) adds that this even applies to food that one is not allowed to eat, such as chametz on Pesach. The Magen Avraham (OC 171:1) explains that when one treats food disrespectfully, one is demonstrating a lack of gratitude to Hashem for His gifts. The Aruch Hashulchan (OC 171:3) and Mishna Berura (171:9) write that the Gemara’s restriction against throwing specifically applies to bread even if it will not get ruined. Other food, however, may be thrown providing that it will not get ruined. Thus, the Magen Avraham (167:38) an...

Question: Does one need lechem mishne for seuda shelishis ? If so, can I use a frozen challa ? Do I need to remove it from the bag if I’m not going to eat it? Answer: The Gemara (Shabbos 117b) writes that we are botzeia over two challos to remember that two portions of man fell in the midbar before Shabbos. While according to the Magen Avraham (OC 254:23) this requirement is derabanan, the Taz (OC 678:2), Chasam Sofer (OC 46) and Aruch Hashulchan (OC 274:1) write that it is mideoraisa . Following Rashi, the Shulchan Aruch (OC 274:1) understands this to mean saying hamotzi over the two challos. The Vilna Gaon, however, follows Rashba who writes that the requirement is to cut both challos (See Mishna Berura 274:4; Aruch Hashulchan OC 274:3). The Daas Zekeinim (Shemos 16:22) writes that as the bnei yisrael would only have had one portion of man left by Shabbos afternoon, there is no need to have lechem mishne for seuda shelishis. The Rema (OC 291:4) writes that while man...