Collective or Individual Gomel
Question: Our family has just returned from a holiday abroad. Should each of us bench gomel individually, or can one person recite it on behalf of everyone? Answer: The Shulchan Aruch (OC 219:5) explains that if one person recites beracha of hagomel , others who hear it can fulfil their obligation through listening, even if they do not respond ‘ amen.’ However, this only applies if the person reciting the beracha intends to fulfil the obligation on behalf of those listening, and the listeners intend to fulfil their obligation in this way. The Shulchan Aruch Harav (OC 167:18) states that it is generally preferable for one person to recite the beracha on behalf of others, rather than everyone reciting it individually, in keeping with the principle of berov am hadras melech , that mitzvos are more glorified when performed with greater communal participation (Berachos 53a; Yoma 70a; Megilla 27b, et al.). However, when it comes to berachos before eating, it is customary for e...